University is a massive learning curve, and nobody gets it right 100% of the time. Looking back at my first two years, there are definitely things I’d tell both my Fresher and Second-year self to do differently. To save you the stress and the "I wish I'd known that" moments, here is my unofficial guide to surviving Exeter.

First year:

• The Freshers' Budget: You’ll spend more in the first two weeks than you will in any other month. Between society memberships, kitchen essentials you forgot to buy, and the inevitable nights out, the money disappears fast. Top tip: Create a specific "Freshers Pot" separate from your weekly budget so you don't spend your rent money before October even starts.

• The "Flat-Only" Mistake: I spent my first term only hanging out with my immediate flatmates. While I like them, I really regret not making an effort with the people on the rest of my floor or in my wider accommodation block. Your front door shouldn't be a social barrier.

• Sober Bonding: Nightlife is a huge part of the uni experience, but some of the best friendships are built during the day. Go for a coffee or a walk - it’s much easier to actually build a bond when you aren't shouting over a DJ.

• The Cleaning Rota: It sounds like a "boring adult" thing to do but set one up in Week 1. Most people are living away from home for the first time, and everyone has different standards of what "clean" means. A clear plan prevents 90% of the arguments that happen in Term 2.

• The Housing Panic: This is the big one. I signed my second-year contract on 2 October (!!!!). Looking back, that was way, way too early. While I love my group, we definitely could/should have waited a month (or two), explored more options, and probably found something with better value for money. Don't let the whispers of houses disappearing by reading week pressure you into the wrong deal.
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Second year:

• Show Up to Contact Hours: We’re paying thousands of pounds for these hours - don't waste them. Convincing yourself that you'll "just watch the recording" is a trap. Being in the room allows you to ask questions and properly absorb the information.

• Use Office Hours: Your lecturers are experts who are literally paid to help you. Whether it’s a complex equation in a STEM module or trying to push an essay from a 2:1 to a 1st, that 1-on-1 time is a goldmine that so many fail to use!

• The Internship Train: If an internship is something you are after, start looking in September of your second year. Nobody is going to tap you on the shoulder and tell you it’s time to start applying. I was too late on the train and really felt it when everyone else was securing their summer plans. Getting a head start also allows you more time to get your CV / application reviewed by your peers or personal tutor.

• The TV License: If you’re watching live TV (even on a laptop), just get the license. I learnt the hard way that a fine is way more expensive than the actual fee and gives you significant peace of mind.

• Find "You" Time: Don't let your life become 100% library or 100% partying. Find a hobby, a sport, or just a routine that keeps you sane. You’re more than just your grades!

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